Proverbs 24:12

"Once our eyes have been opened, we cannot pretend we do not know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows we know and holds us responsible to act." Proverbs 24:12

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Christmas Eve in Guangzhou - December 24

The star, the angels, the shepherds all heralded the coming of the Messiah on the night of His birth. Tonight we celebrate the birth of the King....our King.  We are not celebrating in our typical fashion this year, but like every year, we mark this special day.   "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men."

We woke this morning to sunshine and cool temperatures.  At breakfast we met a few other adoptive families who are here at the hotel for the week finishing their paperwork as well.  Sweet people and wonderful kids.  After breakfast, we wandered the streets around the hotel and found.......a Starbucks! Kirstin's homing chip was at work.  Soon after our guide Connie met us and we walked to the clinic for Elsa's medical exam.  This experience which all adopted children from China share is a rite of passage and a US government requirement. After moving from room to room, the doctor finally looked Elsa over and stamped her records.  Now we wait to have the TB test read before her visa is issued.  After the exam, Connie went through more paperwork with us and our itinerary for the rest of the week here.

The rest of our day here involved walking this beautiful island, shopping, people watching, and resting.  Since it's a Saturday, there are lots of people shopping here.  There are unique food booths set up in the square.  We tried the crepes with mango and loved them.  We found a few shops that catered to adoptive families.  The shop keepers are sweet.  One man, Jordan, found us on the street and gave us his card.  We later saw his shop and went in. He offered to do a calligraphy of Elsa's name for free while we waited.  Throughout the day, we got text updates from the boys as to their whereabouts. We are so excited to see the tomorrow!  We walked into a few restaurants to see what was on their menu for tonight before settling on eating dinner at Lucy's, a popular spot on the island.

Elsa continues to get to know us and we are more and more familiar with what she needs and how to meet those needs.  Dad is still her favorite, but the two of us walked around the island alone for an hour or so this afternoon to give Dad a break.  After the initial shock of "where's Baba?" , we had a great time together.  Definite progress. Her smiles were few today.  I think the late night of travel yesterday and the medical visit today have taken its toll.  Annika and Mari are great with her.  And they are a big help to Mom and Dad!  It is wonderful to be here with them. Annika is experiencing a new side of adoption.  Her soft heart is obvious as she deals with her new little sister.  I am excited for Elsa to meet her brothers tomorrow!

We ended the day at church for the Christmas Eve service.  We were there earlier in the day to find out what time the service was scheduled to start. They told us to get there early for the 7:30 service because it would be crowded.  At 7pm we arrived and there were crowds outside the closed gates of the church.  We assumed that they were waiting to open the gates until a certain time.  The longer we stood there in the crowd,  it became obvious that we were not getting in.  Someone from the church told us that the church was already full and that's why the gates were closed.  The rest of the people who couldn't get a seat were waiting outside to hear the service on the speakers mounted on the fence.  Some were crowded around a blank wall of the church to watch a video feed of the service.  We were overwhelmed by the desire of so many Chinese believers to worship the newborn King.  We sang with the congregation in the pews, " O come let us adore Him, Christ the Lord."



 Beautiful Shamian Island.


 One of our favorite shops!





 Sampling some unique food.


 Having fun with one of the many bronze statues.

 One of the items on a menu in one of the restaurants near by.
 We asked someone to take our picture... this is what we got.
 Christmas Eve dinner at Lucy's.
 Complete with complimentary Santa Claus hats.

 Waiting outside the church for the Christmas Eve service.


Merry Christmas!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Leaving Nanning - December 23

We are so grateful to God for this beautiful place.  As we leave here with Elsa, we do so with thankful hearts for the woman who gave her life and the foster family that loved her for us until we could get here.  God has truly been faithful to meet her needs as He promises in His word.

Elsa continues to amaze us.  The language barrier is not insurmountable.  With pantomime and gestures we are able to communicate with her pretty well.  About once a day, though, we hit a wall where nothing but a good cry will do.  On some level, I can relate. :)  If you have something that she wants, she will say "please" for it if you ask her to. She loves chewing gum, body lotion, and pictures of herself on the computer. She does NOT like Snickers bars. She continues to LOVE her Baba.  She called for Mama today when we left the restaurant.  Todd got so excited because he thought she wanted me to carry her down the stairs.  When I turned, she handed me her little purse, then turned to Dad for him to carry her.  I was just thrilled she called me Mama! Baby steps!

Today has been a packing day.  Boy!  You can really spread out in a hotel room after being in it for five days!  We visited the pool one last time as well as our favorite restaurants, NE Dumplings of China and RBT Tea Cafe.  The helpful wait staff at both places are smiling faces we will remember for a long time.  Our one adventure for the day was taking a taxi to a park the doorman recommended.  The word park excited Annika.  She had visions of swings, slides and climbing equipment.  The reality was a very beautiful, landscaped park in the city center. Not a teeter totter in sight.  It was a wonderful spot, but we didn't last too long.  If Todd and I had been alone, a leisurely stroll there would have been wonderful.  We settled for a quick run through some grass and a few pictures by some pretty flowers.

Our flight to Guangzhou leaves in a while.  There we will begin the last phases of paperwork, meet the boys and have some wonderful family time celebrating the birth of our Savior.  We cannot think of a better way to celebrate Jesus this year than to be altogether as a family with Chinese brothers and sisters in the Lord.

 Our trip to the park.



 Our second favorite restaurant in Nanning.
 Taking pictures with Elsa is always a challenge.



 She's going...
 Going...
Gone. 

Thursday, December 22, 2011

The BEST Birthday present ever! - December 22

I don't think I would have ever dreamed growing up that I would ever spend my birthday in China.  It has been a wonderful day here. The verse for the day is Isaiah 25:1, "O Lord, You are my God;  I will exalt You; I will praise your name, for you have done wonderful things, plans formed of old, faithful and sure." We continue to praise Him for such a wonderful outpouring of the Spirit in our lives as we bond with this precious little girl who's smile is brighter every day.  It is such a wonderful thing to see His hand in all of this and be able to say with complete confidence that it is not about us, but about the praise of His name!

We began today slowly since we were up a couple of times calming down Miss Elsa.  She doesn't seem to be fully awake ever, just fussy.  It's a good time for cuddling, but definitely leaves the sleep department lacking.  After breakfast, we met Cindy who had all of our official adoption paperwork notarized and ready for us to file away for our paperwork meetings in Guangzhou in the days ahead. Then we headed off to see some beautiful parts of Nanning.  She brought us to Green Mountain Park outside of the center of the city near the river.  Here we climbed the nine flights of stairs to the top of a pagoda at the tippy top of the park. The view from the top was spectacular and worth the huffing and puffing on the way up.  Next stop in the park was the stone monuments representing the twelve different "years" of the Chinese calendar.  This year was the year of the Rabbit and in the coming year it will change to the year of the Dragon.  A quick look around the part showed us that Todd and I were born in the year of the Dragon, Mari and Annika were born in the year of the Rooster, Elsa was born in the year of the Ox.  Annika found it funny that Jake was born in the year of the Rat while she was jealous of Gus who was born in the year of the Dog.  We then went to the pond and spent some time feeding the koi.  They were well fed, but still jumped at the chance to eat whatever the girls threw their way.  After leaving the park, Cindy took us to a wonderful museum featuring the twelve different ethnic groups found in and around Nanning.  We wandered the exhibits looking at the beautifully colored ethnic costumes and hearing about the interesting traditions of each people group.  This area is known for its bronze drums, in fact the entire museum is shaped like a drum. It was fascinating.  We were able to buy a few things for Elsa to help her understand where she was born as she grows up far away from here.

The afternoon included time at the pool, walking to the park and enjoying tea at that fabulous restaurant we discovered yesterday. Todd enjoyed his favorite mango tea and we all loved trying the chocolate banana waffle.  Walking back to the hotel, we ran into our friends that we met our first day here.  It was great to say hi and to thank them for their encouragement and prayer.  We ended the day with a massage.

So, what was my best birthday present ever?  Elsa turned to ME this morning and wanted ME to hold her!  Then she smiled at me and at Baba's prompting planted a kiss on my cheek. As I write, the three sisters are squealing and laughing, having a tickle fest on the beds.  I'm not sure a birthday could end better than that.  Well, maybe it could.  If the brothers were here too, now that would be beyond words!  In a couple of days.....
For now, I'll take this laughter, smiles and dimples.  Praise His holy name.


 All of nine floors of the pagoda.
 View from the top.

 Cindy and Mr. Fu stayed behind.
 Feeding the koi.







 Year of the Rabbit.
 Visiting the museum...
 Was VERY tiring.
 Birthday girl.
Love that smile!